Free Marriage Resources

Biblical, Practical Guides for Every Season of Marriage

Marriage is hard, and most couples don’t know where to start when things feel off. These free marriage resources from Marriage Revolution cover everything from rebuilding trust after an affair, to everyday ways to love and lead your spouse well. Each ebook is written from a biblical, practical perspective and designed to give you something you can put to work in your marriage today.

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The First 7 Days

If you just found out about an affair, you don’t have to make sense of everything right now. This guide from Hans and Star walks you through the first 7 days after discovery, what to do, what to avoid, and how to get through the hour without doing more damage to yourself or your marriage. Written from their own story of betrayal and recovery, it won’t tell you how your story ends, but it will tell you that you’re not alone in it.

Reclaim Your Marriage ebook cover, free resource for spouses fighting for their marriage alone

Reclaim Your Marriage

If you’re the only one in your marriage who wants to fight for it right now, this ebook is specifically written for you. Hans shares the steps he personally followed when he was in that exact place, including how to re-commit his life to God, how to pursue his wife well, and how to keep going when it felt impossible. There is hope for your marriage, even when your spouse isn’t ready to believe it yet.
You're Being Lied To ebook cover, free biblical marriage resource from Marriage Revolution

You're Being Lied To

Culture has a lot to say about what marriage is supposed to look like, and most of it is wrong. This ebook, expanded from our most-read blog post since 2010, walks through 18 of the most common lies couples believe about marriage and replaces each one with what God actually says is true. If your marriage has felt like a constant disappointment, there’s a good chance you’ve been measuring it against the wrong standard.

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10 Things to Remember When You're in Conflict

Every marriage has conflict. The question is whether it’s bringing you closer or pushing you further apart. This ebook walks through 10 principles for turning conflict into something productive. From understanding why your spouse isn’t actually your enemy, to why radical ownership matters more than proving your spouse wrong. These steps are practical, honest, and grounded in Scripture.

Top 10 Ways to Love Your Spouse ebook cover, free marriage resource from Marriage Revolution

Top 10 Ways To Love Your Spouse

Most people enter marriage wanting to love their spouse well but haven’t grasped what that looks like day to day. This ebook walks through 10 core love needs every spouse has, including attention, respect, security and others, giving you practical and specific ways to meet each one. At 50 pages, it’s our most in-depth resource and a good starting point for any couple wanting to go deeper.

92 Simple Ways to Win Big in Marriage ebook cover, free everyday marriage resource from Marriage Revolution

92 Simple Ways To Win Big In Marriage

Marriages aren’t built in big dramatic moments. They’re built in the small ones, repeated consistently over time. This list of 92 practical ideas covers everyday ways to love, lead, encourage, and pursue your spouse. Most take less than a minute and none require a big budget or a perfect relationship to start. If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to do something, this is your starting point.

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How to Affair Proof Your Marriage

Most affairs don’t start the way you’d expect. This ebook, written by Star Molegraaf, walks through the 7 common factors that can create vulnerability in a marriage. She gives practical, proactive steps to address each one before they become a problem. The steps alone won’t make your marriage bulletproof, but committing to this culture in your marriage lays a strong foundation for you both to build on.

25 Ways to Lead Your Wife ebook cover, free husband leadership resource from Marriage Revolution

25 Ways to Lead Your Wife

Leadership in marriage isn’t about authority, it’s about building a relationship where your wife genuinely wants to follow you. Using the LEAD acrostic (Love, Engage, Accept, Decisive) as a foundation, Hans lays out 25 practical ways for husbands to lead well. From praying with and for your wife, to listening better, to simply doing the dishes. If you’ve ever wanted to lead your marriage well but weren’t sure what that looks like in practice, start here.

25 Ways to Respect Your Husband ebook cover, free resource for wives from Marriage Revolution

25 Ways to Respect Your Husband

Respect is one of the most powerful things a wife can offer her husband, and one of the most misunderstood. This ebook walks through 25 specific, practical ways wives can show respect in everyday moments. From correcting him privately and praising him publicly, to the kind of belief in him that can genuinely change how he sees himself. Grounded in Ephesians 5 and written with both grace and honesty.

Marriage Staff Meeting ebook cover, free weekly marriage check-in resource from Marriage Revolution

Marriage Staff Meeting

Most couples talk plenty, but rarely about the things that actually matter. This ebook gives you a simple, repeatable weekly rhythm for having the conversations your marriage needs. It covers how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, and physically as a couple, what’s coming up on the calendar, and how to keep growing together. One meeting a week can change the culture of your marriage.

Yearly Couples Review ebook cover, free annual marriage reflection resource from Marriage Revolution

Yearly Couples Review

Most couples spend more time planning their vacation than they do reflecting on their marriage. This guided workbook, written by Marriage Revolution counselor Kele Pandolfe-Sheppard, gives you and your spouse a structured way to look back on the past year together and move into the next one with clarity and shared purpose. It covers your relationship’s spiritual, emotional, and practical health, and walks you through building a couples vision statement together.

Free Marriage Ebooks: Frequently Asked Questions

It depends on where you are in your marriage right now. If you're in the middle of conflict, start with 10 Things to Remember When You're in Conflict or You're Being Lied To. If you're the only spouse fighting for the marriage, Reclaim Your Marriage was written specifically for you. If you want to build better everyday habits, 92 Simple Ways to Win Big in Marriage or Marriage Staff Meeting are great starting points. Husbands looking to lead better will find 25 Ways to Lead Your Wife practical and direct. Wives looking to strengthen their marriage will find 25 Ways to Respect Your Husband both honest and encouraging. And if you want a comprehensive look at what it means to love your spouse well, Top 10 Ways to Love Your Spouse is our most in-depth resource.

Yes, completely. Every ebook in our library is free to download. We ask for your first name and email address so we can send you the download link and stay in touch, but there is no cost and no obligation.

Yes. Every ebook is written from a biblical perspective by the counselors and founders of Marriage Revolution. You'll find Scripture referenced throughout, with the content remaining practical and applicable regardless of where you or your spouse are in your faith.

Absolutely. Each ebook covers a different aspect of marriage, and many couples find more than one relevant to their situation. Each one requires a separate download, but all of them are free.

Yes, and we encourage it. If you know a couple who could use one of these resources, feel free to pass it along or send them to this page to find the one that fits best.

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