Maybe you’re looking for a few questions to bump things up a notch: to really make your wife feel loved. To take your relationship to the next level. Be forewarned—not every one of these questions is for every wife. But some of these questions might have what it takes to communicate “I cherish you.” … Just be prepared for the answer!

25 Questions To Ask Your Wife

  1. What’s one thing you love about our marriage?
  2. If you could only pick one thing, what would you change about our marriage?
  3. Can I rub your feet?
  4. What’s one way I could be a better leader to you and our kids?
  5. What’s one thing you love about our sex life?
  6. What one thing that you’d love for me to do more as your lover?
  7. What’s one of your best memories of us?
  8. Knowing what you do about our current financial situation—and without changing it—how do you feel about your budget? Does it work for you? Am I listening well to what you need?
  9. How well do I “see” you and what you carry every day? Do you feel acknowledged, heard, and received?
  10. If you could have more of one thing from me—time, sex, listening, help in the kitchen, you name it—what would it be?
  11. Can we go out on a date this weekend?
  12. What’s one way I could do a better job caring for you?
  13. Can we start saving up for a little getaway, just you and me?
  14. How can I pray for you?
  15. What’s God been teaching you lately?
  16. Can I pick up something for you at the store?
  17. Can I tell you how attractive you are to me?
  18. How was your day—really?
  19. How would you like some alone time this week?
  20. What’s on your “bucket list”—you know, your list of things you’d like to do before you die?
  21. What can I do to ease your load today?
  22. Can I put the kids to bed tonight, and you relax?
  23. Have you heard from your family lately? How are they doing?
  24. What’s one way I could step up with the kids that would really be helpful to you?
  25. Can I tell you one thing that I’ve loved about you lately?